One example of a time when I failed this semester is when I lost a charity basketball tournament that I was playing in. The name of the tournament is called Alpha Delta Pi Lionshare. While this tournament only occurs once a year, it is something that I have participated in and failed the past three years. My team made a good run in the tournament we made it to the top eight out of over 50 teams, but I would consider myself a pretty good basketball player, and I hate losing, so I would consider it a failure. Especially considering that my first year in the tournament we made it to the final four. What I learned from this failure, is that if I really want to succeed at something, I need to make sure my teammates/team members are also on the same level of commitment as me. I also learned that if you really want to succeed at that thing, it requires time and dedication. You can't just show up with a good plan, you have to prepare mentally and physically weeks beforehand.
In general, I hate failure. That's why usually when I commit to do/attempt something, I always give my very best to try and succeed. While I hate failure, at the same time I am thankful for it. Since I hate it so much, it pushes me to be the best version of myself that I can be. It also is a great teacher, failure helps you learn a lot about yourself and the type of person you decide to be, as in if you are someone who doesn't give up or someone who does. I handle failure pretty well I would say. At first I will be upset for a minute, but then I get motivated to try even harder the next time I face a challenge. After taking this course, I would say that I am more likely to take a risk compared to before I took this course.
Graham,
ReplyDeleteI agree with you that almost anything requires time and dedication to be truly successful. It stinks that you lost the tournament, but you can at least look at it in a positive light at the end of the day because it was a philanthropy and you were helping others. I also am thankful for failure, for it molds us into better men.